We all go through ups and down, a few situations can get the back on track...
But if you're thinking of taking your relationship to the next level without tying the knot, then it'd be wise to consider a few things.
* same commitment level
If you are taking the big move as a stepping stone for marriage while that is the furthest thing on your partners mind, then you are setting yourself up for heart break ! Make sure that you both are ready for the same level of commitment.
* Be ready to adjust
He throws his wet towel on the bed, makes the room look like a pig-sty.... you get exposed to his every little annoying habit---are ready for it? Get you to know him a little better by taking a week-long trip together. But it is important to be more accommodating and tolerant towards your partner.
* share expenses
Money is notorious for souring relationships, so make sure to go Dutch for everything-bills, house rent, groceries ete The other way to do this is to have one joint account where both of you contribute a percentage of your salary every month. But retain a separate bank account for yourself too as a safety valve in case the relationship fails.
* Baby comes along
Pregnancy can be the turn ing point in your relationship. As per the law your child has complete rights to both parents' self acquired property. Consult a legal advisor to be clear about the legal implications.
* relationship come up lemons Then it is better to have some kind of proof in hand, such as a ration card or a joint bank account with the address men- tioned, that shows that you both have lived in .
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